Family is Everything: Building Gospel-Centered Homes in a Broken World
God designed the family as the cornerstone of His divine plan, a sacred bond that mirrors Christ’s unwavering love for His church. In a world fractured by divorce, neglect, and rebellion, the call to raise Gospel-centered homes is both urgent and essential. Families rooted in Scripture, guided by repentance, and unified in devotion to Jesus Christ become beacons of light in a darkening world. This essay expands on the sacred role of the family, drawing from the principles outlined in The Family by the Tyler Greene Ministry, and offers practical steps to strengthen your home as a fortress of faith against the attacks of evil adversaries.
The Divine Blueprint of Family
From the beginning, God established the family as the heart of His plan for humanity. In Genesis 2:24 (KJV), He declared, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” This holy bond, sealed by sacred covenants, reflects the unity and love between Christ and His church (Ephesians 5:25). The family is not merely a social unit but a divine institution, designed to foster spiritual growth, moral strength, and eternal unity.
In The Family, I unveil this divine blueprint, rooted in the Holy Scriptures and the sacred covenants of the Holy Priesthood. The family serves as the foundational structure for building Zion—a community of believers united in faith and obedience to God. Through the family, children learn to honor God, spouses grow in selfless devotion, and every member is equipped to fulfill God’s everlasting promise. As Psalm 127:3 (KJV) affirms, “Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” The family is God’s gift and His plan for humanity’s flourishing.
The Adversary’s Attack on the Family
Evil adversaries, led by the same deceptive spirit that tempted Adam and Eve in Eden, relentlessly target the family. They sow discord through divorce, neglect, rebellion, and worldly distractions, aiming to fracture what God has joined. Jesus warned in Matthew 19:6 (KJV), “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” The breakdown of families—evident in rising divorce rates, fractured parent-child relationships, and the erosion of biblical values—is not accidental but a calculated assault by forces opposed to God’s plan.
These adversaries breed discord by promoting selfishness, materialism, and moral compromise. They whisper that personal fulfillment trumps family duty, that children need entertainment over discipline, or that love can be casual rather than covenantal. Yet Scripture calls us to resist. Ephesians 6:4 (KJV) instructs, “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” By grounding our homes in Christ’s teachings, we shield our families from these attacks and build unity that withstands the world’s chaos.
Raising Gospel-Centered Homes
To counter the adversary’s schemes, we must raise families that are unapologetically Gospel-centered. This requires intentional effort, daily repentance, and a commitment to base every choice on Scripture. In The Family, I emphasize that a Gospel-centered home is one where Christ is the foundation, His Word is the guide, and His love is the glue that binds every member. This is not a passive endeavor but an active pursuit of holiness, where parents lead with righteousness, spouses honor their covenants, and children are trained to follow God.
Here are practical steps to begin today:
Pray Together Nightly: Gather your family for prayer each evening, seeking God’s guidance and protection. Philippians 4:6 (KJV) urges, “Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.” Nightly prayer fosters unity and invites Christ’s presence into your home.
Read a Proverb Daily: Study a chapter from Proverbs together each day, discussing its wisdom and applying it to your lives. Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) instructs, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Scripture equips families to make godly choices and resist worldly temptations.
Show Righteousness in Action: Model Christ-like behavior in your words and deeds. Spouses, love each other with devotion, as Ephesians 5:25 (KJV) commands, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” Parents, discipline with love, not anger, teaching children to honor God. Actions speak louder than words in shaping a Gospel-centered home.
Repent and Perfect Your Family: Lead your family in daily repentance, confessing sins and seeking God’s forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 (KJV) promises, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Through repentance, you and your family grow closer to Christ’s perfection.
Serve as a Family: Engage in acts of service together, such as helping a neighbor or volunteering at church. Galatians 5:13 (KJV) says, “By love serve one another.” Service strengthens family bonds and reflects Christ’s selfless love to the world.
The Call to Lead with Love
Building a Gospel-centered home requires leadership rooted in love and humility. Parents, especially fathers, are called to lead with the same sacrificial love Christ showed His church. This means nurturing children with patience, not provocation, and teaching them to love God with all their heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). Spouses must prioritize their covenant, choosing devotion over distraction and forgiveness over resentment. As Colossians 3:14 (KJV) states, “And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.”
Leadership also means protecting your family from worldly influences. Limit exposure to media that glorifies sin, and foster an environment where Scripture, prayer, and worship are the norm. In a world that celebrates rebellion, your home can be a sanctuary where God’s truth reigns supreme.
The Urgency of Today
The time to strengthen your family is now. The adversary’s attacks grow bolder, and the world’s pull grows stronger. Yet God’s promise remains: through faith in Jesus Christ and obedience to His commandments, your family can become a powerful force for building Zion. Joshua 24:15 (KJV) declares, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Make this your family’s anthem, and commit to raising a home that shines as Christ’s light in a broken world.
Your family is not just a unit; it is a divine calling, a reflection of God’s love, and a cornerstone of His plan. As outlined in The Family, a home rooted in the Holy Scriptures and the covenants of the Holy Priesthood has the power to transform lives and fulfill God’s eternal purpose. Start today: pray together, study Proverbs, model righteousness, repent, and serve. Let your home be a testament to the truth that family is everything.
A Call to Action
Family is everything—God’s design for spiritual growth, moral strength, and eternal unity. Do not let the adversary’s lies or the world’s brokenness tear apart what God has joined. Begin now: pray together nightly, read a Proverb daily, show righteousness in your actions, repent as a family, and serve others with love. Lead with devotion, protect your home from worldly distractions, and make every choice based on Scripture. Through repentance and Christ’s teachings, perfect yourself and your family, building a Gospel-centered home that reflects His glory. Stand for family, make your home Jesus Christ’s light, and fulfill the divine blueprint laid out in The Family. Start today, and let your family be a force for God’s kingdom.